By Ellen Lewis

It’s no secret I am a Samantha Chang fan.  She has that rare mixture of an artist’s touch and business reality.  When I saw her new Modern Vintage collection, I flashed back to my wedding when I was 22 and insisted on wearing a vintage peasant wedding dress.  My very traditional mother did not fare well during the try on process.  My taste was always eclectic leaning towards the shabby chic.  I even registered for two separate sets of dishes so I could mix up the place settings.  I have never lost my taste for the interesting.  That’s why I think these styles are a terrific lingerie choice for the right bride.

By Ellen Lewis

When I was in my 20′s I traveled to Columbia with 2 of my girlfriends on an all inclusive budget trip to Cartegna, Columbia.  The electricity in the hotel worked about half the time and if I remember correctly, someone had chickens on the flight down. It was my first venture into an adventurous paradise and the thought crossed my mind as I drank rum  and baked, irresponsibly, under palm trees in the hot sun that this would be a nice type of environment for a honeymoon.  We spent all week in bathing suits  and sheer cotton sundresses. Now many years later I have the privilege of revisiting those memories with Shadia K’David, the creative force behind Salua Lingerie.  I have watched this Colombian star rising for the past few years and keep coming back to it as a perfect Lingerie collection of bridal Sleepwear- this one for Fall 2013.  For the bride who likes sensual simplicity this brand is a breath of fresh air.  Inquiries: skdavid@salualingerie.com

By Aimee Guthinger

There really is no better time in a woman’s life to throw caution to the wind and allow herself to be “showered” with decadent lingerie than during the spring of her engagement.  It is a great time for the real fun of being a bride to begin.  It is a special time for both you and your soon to be betrothed, and no matter what your taste or preference in lingerie might be, mark my words, your gift giving friends can be of great value especially if they know your preferences beforehand.  Ideally, if you set the tone with your pre-selected registry, then your girlfriends will have a great starting point for your shower.

Of course, it is no secret that lingerie has traditionally been incorporated into bridal showers, but I also love the idea of a lingerie specific shower either in conjunction with your traditional shower (maybe reserved for dessert) or even as a separate event altogether. This notion also gracefully allows your more conservative guests to politely excuse themselves to avoid potential embarrassment.

Bordelle

Panty By Post

Salua

Now, call me old fashioned, but I would recommend including your intimate registry with your full bridal registry.  Your selections will set the tone for all of your guests with your intimate style, but I would start with the basics.  A good registry provides a way to label your selections, (i.e., wedding night, get away outfit, underthings, etc.) and this allows those closest to you to better understand their options without trying to guess which item is meant for which night.

Classy Bride

Chantelle

Much like you would with your china and kitchen items, I suggest selecting a variety of styles among different price ranges.  Don’t let cost sway you! A registry is merely a collection of items you like.  It provides a roadmap for gift givers to either use directly or to take note of your taste.  And, this is the real beauty of the registry, as it gives your friends and family insight and choice, but doesn’t commit them to anything in particular. They are able to exercise their own discretion and spend within their means.

Hanky Panky

Finally, a registry shouldn’t be intimidating as can be the case for brides with little prior experience.  You don’t have to pick out elaborate styles for your registry if you are not comfortable.  Selection can range from a pretty pair of panties to the outrageous “what would blow my new hubby’s mind” lingerie. Remember, options at various price points regardless of how provocative or not frees your guests to choose what they like and what they can afford.  Also, don’t forget, many boutiques offer monogramming options, so beach towels with your names and wedding date are great items to include. Lotions, candles, even costumes for the honeymoon or back at home are also worth considering.  A favorite among our Cape Cod shoppers is the French Maid.  She’s timeless & can be a great deal of fun for newlyweds! So, whatever you choose, get out there and have some fun. You’re the bride and it’s your party!

By Ellen Lewis

I met Flora Nikrooz some years ago.  When you are with Flora, it is quite obvious why she has been the creative force behind this brand of sensual, soft, and beautiful sleepwear for 30 years.  I probably should not admit it, but when I was developing private label product for Macy’s, Flora’s designs were a go to source of inspiration. Her exquisite and elegant details, workmanship guided by her on site supervision as every piece is made in New York City, has set her apart as a leader in the bridal category.   Always evolving with the times, Flora has found a way to maintain tradition while she builds a formidable collection for the modern bride. Recently, I visited Flora in her NY showroom and she showed me some of the bestselling items this spring:

By Margaret Shrum
The American tradition of wearing something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue still seems to play a part in weddings. For the something blue, I have selected some of my favorite pretty blue panties that the bride can wear underneath her gown on her wedding day. Maybe it could be fun to throw a “Something Blue Bridal Shower” and treat her to a nice selection of pretty blue lingerie. here are some of my personal favorites, fit for a bride!

Simone Perele

Chantelle

Triumph

La Perla

Deborah Marquit

Stella McCartney

I also found a designer on Etsy.com called BluIntimates, that has a selection of something blue lingerie for the unique bride. The link is  and the designer can make custom panties with your last name embroidered on them. She also has a lovely selection of pretty blue panties to select from her site. Here are a few that I thought were fun & reasonable priced.

BluIntimates

BluIntimates

BluIntimates

By Aimee Guthinger

We are pleased to share our newest Lingerie Bridal Shower idea, the Hanky Panky Bridal Shower Cake that we recently created at my shop, Bedroom I’s Boutique!

We used an assortment of Hanky Panky thongs, panties and boyshorts all delicately rolled to uniformly support the shape and body of this confectionery display.  There are two flavors: the all ivory cake or the something blue and white alternative.  Adding some decorative touches and trimmings, these intimate desserts are coordinated to make a fun centerpiece for the shower gift table.

The ivory cake here has been topped with Hanky Panky low rise ruffle thongs and a scattered pearl cluster accessory.  The middle tier features an oversize engagement ring alongside a Hanky Panky clear Swarovski crystal Mrs. thong.  Cape Cod Soy Massage Candles in both Fifty Shades of Vanilla and Naughty Nectar fragrances has also been included.  The soy wax in these candles is extra emollient and turns to liquid while burning.  This allows the couple to enjoy the candle and to use it as a warm massage lotion too.

The something blue and white cake features a Bedroom I’s custom leg garter as the topper, as well as the standard assortment of Hanky Panky thongs, panties & boyshorts.  This cake features the Cape Cod Soy Massage Candle in Nantucket Island Lavender to compliment the blue crystal Mrs. thongs from Hanky Panky.

These cakes are fun and easy to make! If you have a crafty side, give it a try or call us and we’ll be happy to customize one for your bridal shower!